This estate-planning document is not legally binding, but still contains important information.
A letter of instruction is not legally enforceable
It is not a substitute for a last will and testament
It should contain useful financial information and burial wishes
Use it to bequeath small items or pass down your personal values
A letter of instruction is an estate-planning document that addresses informal details that aren’t included in or appropriate for a will. Also known as a letter of intent, it is written by a deceased person to send messages to loved ones as well, and relay useful information regarding the estate, and bequeath personal assets of little value.
Some things commonly included in a letter of instruction are the deceased’s funeral wishes, financial information, and location of assets. The letter is personal, so it can also convey the deceased’s life lessons and wishes for their future heirs.
As part of estate planning, many people choose to create a will, a legal document that describes how their assets and property will be distributed upon death. Constructed in formal legal terms, the will contains the names of beneficiaries and the assets they will receive, as well as other pertinent information regarding the method of distribution.
By comparison, a letter of instruction, or letter of intent, is more casual and written in plain English. It clearly states that it is not legally binding. The letter cannot replace a will. If you die without a will, or it gets lost, but you did write a letter of instruction, your assets will still be distributed according to state laws of intestate succession.
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The letter of instruction also covers housekeeping issues, like where to find belongings or an attorney’s contact information. Anything that might make the probate process and easier for the beneficiaries can be included. (We’ll discuss all the specific things to include next.)
Since the letter is a personal document, it can be used to impart wisdom and convey messages to loved ones. This could be meaningful personal stories, hopes and dreams you have for those you leave behind, even regrets and apologies. Some people might refer to the letter of instruction as an ethical will.
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A letter of instruction should not be used to distribute personal effects. For that, you should write a will, for items with little or no monetary value, but perhaps a great sentimental one. For example, you could give your prized baseball cap that you wear everyday to a grandchild. Instead of using a letter of instruction for these belongings, most people typically reference them in the will, which is used to designate beneficiaries for your belongings. Even a simple will would do the trick, but you'll need a will for this.
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Most of the time, these unspecified items tend to make up the residuary of the estate, which you can bequeath directly as a whole with a residuary clause in the will. An estate-planning attorney can help you decide on the best way to leave assets to your heirs given your circumstances. After all, you want to do everything in your power to prevent any heirs from contesting the will, which they might do using the letter of instruction as evidence, though it is not likely to hold up.
Writing a letter of instruction does not need the help of an estate-planning attorney. You should write it in a tone that’s comfortable and true to you. While there are no requirements, here are things you might want to include:
Funeral and burial arrangements. The letter can provide instructions as to where you want to be buried or where to make charitable donations.
List of assets. Keeping an inventory of assets is not necessary, but deeply helpful for your beneficiaries and executor who is responsible for distributing them. This includes both tangible and intangible assets.
Personal information. Birth certificate, citizenship papers, Social Security number and social security statements.
Financial accounts. Bank account numbers, passwords, log-ins, PIN numbers for any credit cards, retirement and investment accounts, stock certificates. Don’t forget a safety deposit box if you have one.
Social media accounts. In today’s day and age, it might be important to give your beneficiaries information about social media accounts, so they can retain access to your profiles when you die.
Location of important documents. Titles and deeds for any real estate holdings, oil and gas leases, life insurance policies.
Contact information. For lawyers and attorneys, a life insurance agent — anyone whose number might be helpful to your beneficiaries and heirs.
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Elissa Suh is a personal finance editor at Policygenius in New York City. She has researched and written extensively about finance and insurance since 2019, with an emphasis in esate planning and mortgages. Her writing has been cited by MarketWatch, CNBC, and Betterment.
Elissa has a B.A. in Film Studies from Barnard College.
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